Caveat: Cause for Optimism

We had some good news at the VA Hospitals and Clinics for Arthur. His fractured neck bone (technically, his right occipital condyle bone, the base of the skull) is healed sufficiently that he was permitted to remove the nefarious neck brace, which he's hated wearing so much. This allows him to look and feel more like himself, not to mention he doesn't have to feel so conspicuous when out and about in public.

Further good news came from the ENT (otolaryngology) specialist, who said he didn't need any "remediation" with respect to a chronic ear issue. So overall, Arthur is healing apace. 

In the car driving back home from the hospital, I said, "Well, it's all cause for optimism."

Arthur's reply, in his classic Arthur style, was, "Now I just need to be an optimist."

[daily log: walking, 3km]

Caveat: Blackberry Pie

I got one full day off before the slew of appointments resume with Arthur.

So we took a walk up to the tree farm. There were a lot of ripe blackberries along the road, so he and I picked berries, and brought them back to Juli's house. Juli made a blackberry pie.

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Blackberries remind me of my childhood, since my home in northern California was surrounded, as Juli's home is, with abundant wild blackberries.

My body is still sore and achey from my storage unit adventures last week.

[daily log: walking, 4km]

Caveat: Unburdened

Just for the sake of recording for posterity (as if that was necessary), I will show my move-out process from my storage unit in Eagan, Minnesota. After spending a week sorting out my stuff, dividing it into "keep", "throw away" and "maybe piles", the day of reckoning came. Last Friday, I had an appointment for the shipping container to arrive, when I could then send my stuff off to Alaska, where I'm moving.

I got all the stuff out of my storage unit, "staged" and ready to load. My friend Bob arrived to help me load. It was a very hot day.

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When the truck came, about noon, they had the container on the back of the truck. The truck backed down the driveway of the storage place, but we still had about 25 yards across which we had to carry everything. So we got everything at the back of the truck.

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We got it all loaded. The driver and his wife (they were a husband-wife trucking team, which are very common for long-haul truckers in the US), were extremely friendly and helpful. I felt very lucky. They helped us load and gave us good pointers on how to secure stuff too.

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So we closed up the truck and sent my stuff on its way. It will arrive in Alaska before I do. The container will have to sit and wait for me on the dock in Craig.

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Yesterday (Saturday), I went back and paid some junk guys to come and take away all the "throw away" stuff from my storage unit. They were very efficient and did a great, fast job cleaning everything out.

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Then I told the office at the storage place that my unit was empty. They inspected it and pronounced it clean.

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And now, after 20 years, I have finally managed to get all my possessions out of storage. I feel like a great burden has been lifted from me.

 

Today I flew out from Minneapolis back to Portland, and I'm back with Arthur, Juli and Keith. I'm very sore from moving all the boxes, and sleepy from taking such an early flight. 

Here are some volcanoes I saw from my airplane window as we landed at Portland.

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They are, from left to right: St Helens, Rainier (farthest away), Adams.

[daily log: walking, 2km]

Caveat: Goodbye, Minnesota

I had a lot going on today. Busy. Clearing out the storage space, then spending some quality time interacting with my good friend Bob, his parents, and his two sons. It was a good day. But I didn't leave myself much time to work on a blog post, and I'm still exhausted from yesterday's loading party. So I'll keep this short, and give a more substantive update when I get back to Portland, tomorrow.

[daily log: walking, 6km]

Caveat: Loading stuff

My friend Bob and I loaded my stuff into the Alaska-bound container today. I took some pictures, and was thinking to write about the experience in detail, but I'm very tired. So maybe tomorrow I'll give more details.

[daily log: walking, 5km; carrying stuff, 2tons]

Caveat: White Bear Lake

I drove out to White Bear Lake this evening. That's where my best friend Bob's parents live – where David, who is Bob's dad, grew up. Bob has Minnesota roots.

Bob and his two sons drove up from Wisconsin (near Madison) today. I will be staying with Bob in White Bear Lake for the rest of my stay in Minnesota, because Mark and Amy are hosting a big family reunion type event in their house, so I wanted to not be in the way for that. It does mean a bit more of a commute to my storage unit, which is in Eagan just a few miles from Mark and Amy's while it's about 30-45 minutes' drive from White Bear. But it's OK. And I'm happy to see Bob, his parents, and his sons. They are my midwestern family, in many respects. I met Bob my first day of my first year of college, and we've been best friends all these long years.

When I drove out to White Bear Lake, I was just a bit early, and so I waited for Bob to call me and let me know where to go. I stopped next to the lake that gives the town its name. I took this picture of the boats and the summery lake.

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[daily log: walking, 3 km; moving heavy things, a lot]

Caveat: The Migration of the Jareds

My representative at Alaska Marine Lines, who has been very helpful and personable through this process, sent me a confirmation email with the following line added on as an observation. She'd mentioned on the phone earlier that there was another "Jared" whose account she was handling, and it was causing her some confusion. So she wrote:

"This is so strange, what is the likelihood of 2 Jared’s loading in MN (one in Cohasset MN) on Friday the 10th and both moving to Southeast Alaska!?"

It is quite strange. What is causing Jareds to migrate to SE Alaska? Sunspots? Pseudo-Mormon pseudo-apocalypse?

[daily log: walking, 2km; moving heavy boxes, yes]

Caveat: Shipping Junk to Alaska

I'm trying hard to have things as organized and sorted as is possible over such a short time, in such a cramped space. But I face the fact that the container will come, on Friday, and I will still be shipping a lot of "random junk" off to Alaska. Really, once I decided to go with the container, it becomes a fixed cost. As such, whether I ship only exactly what I want to keep or whether I end up shipping stuff I should have thrown out becomes a bit moot – the container will have some surplus space, either way. So I'm shipping junk to Alaska. Such is life. Mark reminded me of the old science fiction satire series, "Bill the Galactic Hero," by Harry Harrison. In that book, a certain planet deals with its excess of trash by mailing it, one small package at a time, to random people on other planets. In a Galactic empire, this is apparently possible. In our own continental empire, likewise, it becomes practical for me to "mail" junk to Alaska. I doubt my uncle would approve. But it'll get dealt with eventually.

[daily log: walking, 2km; and many heavy boxes]

Caveat: Loss of Momentum

I have definitely lost momentum on my clean-up and sorting project today. After a rainy few days, the sun came out and heated everything up. So when I got to my storage unit at 10 am, it was a bit uncomfortable. That didn't help.

And I dropped a box on my arm. No major damage, but a fairly noticeable bruise. Pushing too hard, I think. I need to be careful, right.

So I slowed down, and played at being a semi-sentient slug for the rest of the day today. Mark and Amy and their son Charlie are spending a Sunday afternoon laboring on a patio construction project for their backyard (which looks impressive, by the way). But I begged off and have tried to spend some time relaxing. I've been reading some blogs and contemplating this next phase of my life.

I started trying to write a little short story about a teacher who quits his job and moves to Alaska, but I found the character uninteresting. What does this mean?

[daily log: walking, 2km; heavy boxes moved, a few]

Caveat: This ain’t for the best

Being in the US again is weird, sometimes. I have a bit of reverse culture shock. Seeing US television and flipping through radio stations as I drive my rental car can be slightly disorienting.

This song was on a radio station as a I drove around Eagan, today. It's a song one of my students found and prepared for one of my "CC" classes, at Karma. Is it possible to feel nostalgic even though I'm only two weeks removed from being there?

What I'm listening to right now.

Taylor Swift, "Delicate."

Lyrics.

This ain't for the best
My reputation's never been worse, so
You must like me for me
We can't make
Any promises now, can we, babe?
But you can make me a drink
Dive bar on the East Side, where you at?
Phone lights up my nightstand in the black
Come here, you can meet me in the back
Dark jeans and your Nikes, look at you
Oh damn, never seen that color blue
Just think of the fun things we could do
'Cause I like you
This ain't for the best
My reputation's never been worse, so
You must like me for me
Yeah, I want you
We can't make
Any promises now, can we, babe?
But you can make me a drink
Is it cool that I said all that?
Is it chill that you're in my head?
'Cause I know that it's delicate (delicate)
Is it cool that I said all that
Is it too soon to do this yet?
'Cause I know that it's delicate
Isn't it? Isn't it? Isn't it? Isn't it?
Isn't it? Isn't it? Isn't it? Isn't it?
Delicate
Third floor on the West Side, me and you
Handsome, your mansion with a view
Do the girls back home touch you like I do?
Long night, with your hands up in my hair
Echoes of your footsteps on the stairs
Stay here, honey, I don't wanna share
'Cause I like you
This ain't for the best
My reputation's never been worse, so
You must like me for me
Yeah, I want you
We can't make
Any promises now, can we, babe?
But you can make me a drink
Is it cool that I said all that?
Is it chill that you're in my head?
'Cause I know that it's delicate (delicate)
Is it cool that I said all that
Is it too soon to do this yet?
'Cause I know that it's delicate
Isn't it? Isn't it? Isn't it? Isn't it?
Isn't it? Isn't it? Isn't it? Isn't it?
Delicate
Sometimes I wonder when you sleep
Are you ever dreaming of me?
Sometimes when I look into your eyes
I pretend you're mine, all the damn time
'Cause I like you
Is it cool that I said all that?
Is it chill that you're in my head?
'Cause I know that it's delicate (delicate)
Yeah, I want you
Is it cool that I said all that
Is it too soon to do this yet?
'Cause I know that it's delicate (delicate)
'Cause I like you
Is it cool that I said all that?
Is it chill that you're in my head?
'Cause I know that it's delicate (delicate)
Yeah, I want you
Is it cool that I said all that
Is it too soon to do this yet?
'Cause I know that it's delicate
Delicate

[daily log: walking, 2km; moving stuff around, a lot]

Caveat: implausible geometries

I'm working extremely hard, physically. I am shifting boxes and furniture in my storage unit, but because I don't have any free space in there, and I can't leave anything outside unattended, it's a matter of "unload, shift, reload" each time I go over there. Yesterday and today I did a "morning shift" and an "evening shift" – and so far I've got all the book-boxes in one place, now, and the refrigerator and some throw-away furniture in the back (I'm going to have the container pickup on Friday, 8/10 and the trash pickup on Saturday, 8/11, so I want all the "throw away" things at the back). There is no dumpster on site at the storage, so I can't go along slowly reducing the amount of stuff – I just have to keep shifting. My next step is to try to get the futon sofa, which is at the back, up to the front, because it's a nice piece of furniture in good condition, which  I want to ship. I also have a number of boxes in very bad shape – 11 years sitting at the bottom of the pile squashed a few into implausible geometries. So I need to do a bit of repacking on about 5% of the materials. But overall, I did a pretty good job organizing 11 years ago, keeping in mind I intended to move into a new apartment after only 2 years in storage, rather than what ended up actually happening.

I'll just keep working at it.

[daily log: walking, 2km; shifting boxes, alot]

Caveat: A reconnaissance

I made a reconnaissance to my storage unit. It is a bit overwhelming. It occurs to me, that if my effort to clean and sort my possessions in Korea over the first 3 weeks of July was a "clearing out" of the my last decade's worth of accumulation, then cleaning out and sorting this storage unit represents a "clearing out" of the previous decade's worth of accumulation, because I didn't do an adequate job when I departed for Korea 11 years ago. So now I face it. 

There are some heirloom furniture items in there, and there is of course my vast collection of books. There are some nice newer furniture items, worth keeping too. There are a lot of things not worth keeping: old clothes, some appliances, a lot of old broken electronics stuff that I hoarded for some unfathomable reason. I have to sort into two piles: "send to Alaska" and "junk." Here I go: my full time job for the next 10 days.

I'm tired already. But I am going to face it with optimism. My friend Amy had excellent, aphoristic advice, which I'll paraphrase because I don't remember her exact words: "be brutal with the stuff, but kind to your self."

[daily log: walking, 3km]

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